I'm a person who is concerned about order at my work place, else it's chaos. My work place is a hospital, so I can't accept chaos. People are here to be treated not visit the circus.
I reach that by being strict and tough when mistakes happen.
This left me in a position where my superiors like me & whoever is under my authority doesn't.
The problem is, our field of concern is people's health, so by no means can I go soft on mistakes.
Yet it's not nice to have people shaking when they see you.
I'm looking deep within myself, maybe I can find the right formula one day.
If I didn't ever, I'd rather stick to this formula which always keeps my patient comes first.